Know what you want, and take action to achieve it - not only will you be more attractive, but you'll be happier.
Have an opinion on everything, from the restaurants you eat at to how you spend your free time.What's good for you, Friday or Saturday?" Even if you're shot down, your decisiveness is much more attractive than if you simply asked for her attention. The same goes for "Will you go on a date with me?" Start talking to her, and say "We need to hang out. With women: instead of asking "Can I kiss you," just go for the kiss.You might be surprised by what you've always had permission to do! Don't look to others to determine if you're acting "right". Be decisive (especially with women) and handle objections as they come. That sign, however, often doesn't come, so they appear indecisive. So-called "nice guys" are always waiting for a sign that it's safe to proceed before taking action. Instead, just say something like, "Whoa! Looks like I have a new tie-dye to add to my collection." It's a little cheesy, but it shows that minor problems don't phase you. For instance, if you spill a drink all over yourself, don't spend time worrying about how you'll need to bleach it when you get home. Instead, play it off with a low-key joke. In the event that something does go wrong, try not to stress. Even for bad boys, things don't always go as planned.If you're still working at being relaxed, try slowing down your movements and actions - this is a great first step that will make you look (and feel) much calmer. It's pretty tough to go from being a nervous, worried person to a smooth, confident player overnight.Doing this gives the signal to the people around you that you're cool, confident, and in-control of your situation, which, for bad boys, can be downright sexy. For instance, in a situation where you're around women that you find attractive, while you won't necessarily want to act like a complete slob, you'll want to try to remain as relaxed as if you were at home watching TV. Bad boys don't sweat the small stuff because they're sure that they have it all under control. Nothing's less sexy than someone who's constantly stressed out about every minor aspect of his life. Because sometimes, all you need is a good cry to be able to pick yourself up and feel like yourself again. Next time you’re in your feels, hit play on one of the following sad love songs. It accompanies you, so you’re not alone.” For some people, that’s a really good strategy to allow you to process things… Music has an ability to be a companion, and therefore it is with you in your sadness. Simon Proctor, a sociologist-music therapist and director of music services for Nordoff Robbins UK, told Nylon there’s been “research to suggest that sad music mirrors the feeling of being sad because it is slow, and there is less going on, your mind wanders during it, and you’re more likely to be reflective. There is science to support the comforting feeling of listening to sad music when you’re already sad. Sad love songs that capture exactly what you’re going through can feel like a warm hug that lets you know you’re not alone - others have been there, done that, and come out stronger on the other side. Music can make us feel better when nothing and no one else seems to be able to. Since magic is a fictional concept ( Gasp! I know!), I think the closest thing we have to it IRL is music.